Panties, Panty or Pantie?

Submissive sissies drift off into their own little world at times.  It happens more often at some times than others (you can probably guess when those times are), but when it happens to me i quickly get lost deep in thought about some strange philosophical or hypothetical question or self-created dilemma. 

Here's an example of one that's been gnawing at me for a few months now.  It's a question of which term to use when referring to those pretty things we use to cover our genitals and backside?

Let's use this sentence as an example:  "This morning i slipped into a pair of pretty pink panties."

Simple right?  Well, maybe not.

Does it sound better if you say or write?  "This morning i slipped into a pretty pink panty."

The word panties can be used to describe one or more pair, while the word panty is very specific to one pair.  Maybe it's its specificity, but there's something about the word that makes it a bit more feminine in my opinion, even dainty!

Then there's another option i've seen:  "This morning i slipped into a pretty pink pantie."

Of the three, i think this one is the most feminine.  Like panty, it's specific to a singular pair.  In addition, ending the word with "ie" adds more femininity to it in my opinion.

It's not confusing, but faced with so many choices you can see the dilemma a sissy (or should it be "sissie") faces!

Lately, i've been going back and forth, undecided on what term to use.  i'm leaning toward panty.

But when i feel really, really, really feminine and submissive...i think i prefer pantie.

But i may change my mind though.

After all, isn't that a woman's prerogative?

love,

sissy terri

p.s.  Anyone have an opinion?

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Pretty Print Panties

We have a mid-afternoon flight back home today after enjoying a beautiful wedding yesterday.  California's wine country, especially Napa and Sonoma are just perfect for such occasions.  Too bad our stay had to be so short.  Diane's back to work tomorrow and i've got plenty of housewife things to take care of.

As i slipped into my pink (but rather plain with only a touch of lace around the leg openings) panty a couple of hours ago, i thought about how nice it would be if lingerie manufacturers offered us just a few more varieties of panties with pretty prints.

While colors can be worn to reflect someone's personality or mood (i'm never allowed to wear black or other dark colors that might insinuate dominance) i think print panties could also be very effective in sending subliminal messages to those lucky enough to catch a glimpse!

Here are just a few pictures of some pretty print panties i found on Panty Freek's Panty Paradise  this morning. 

Colorful for sure.  Perfect for "puppy love."

A very subtle print in various shades of pastels, the bow on this panty makes it a sissy favorite.

A bold floral pattern of roses on this panty just oozes femininity.

And here's my favorite for today.  i love how the lace trim runs up the side, the little eyelet trim around the waist, the pink and white pattern and lastly...they're in my favorite color!

love,

sissy terri

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Panty Decisions

"Are these okay for me to wear today Mistress?" i mumbled humbly before i slipped into my panties this morning.

"Yes.  Very pretty." Diane answered with a smile.

That's the way She wants things from now on.  i'm to receive permission from Her ahead of time
before putting on my panties for the day.  If i'm headed to the gym later and will be changing, i also need to seek permission ahead of time on what panties i may wear later that day.

So far, She's agreed with all of my selections.  i'm quite sure that won't always be the case.

In any Female Led Relationship, many decisions are stripped away from the submissive male either right at the outset or incrementally over time.  In our situation it's been the latter where Diane has taken away more and more of my decision making authority.  She's clearly the Head of Household and makes all of the important decisions.  And of course, She decides which are the important ones. 

The major financial decisions are all Hers and She gives me an allowance every month.  The female clothing i buy is handled separately and i ask permission before buying anything.  When i'm given the authority to make a decision, it's usually something meaningless and trivial.  So trivial in fact that it's humiliating to even be given the authority to make it.

Looking back, i'm able to see that all of this took a long time to happen.  All of this transfer of authority couldn't happen all at once in my opinion.  It would be too much to handle.  The way Diane's done it has given me the opportunity to adapt into the lifestyle and appreciate it even more.

At the end of the day, despite many disappointments and grumbling along the way, i have to admit i'm happier this way.

love,

sissy terri

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